Sunday, May 2, 2010

May Day, May Day...

Another Bank Holiday and it's uncharacteristically quiet around here. Daughter and Grandson have gone to Cambridge (again) to stay with a "friend" for the weekend, and so I have the place to myself. It's been raining today so I've spent the day clearing up and cleaning indoors, while watching the rain outside with delight. Ahh, gasped the garden, and my pond positively gurgled with relief. I've watched the water level going down relentlessly (we had no rain at all during April), and have worried about the plants, the tadpoles and the frogs, but they seem to be OK. I uncovered the hiding place of one tiny little chap while I was cutting back the overgrown water plants - he was hiding in the roots of a particularly large plant - but he hopped away quite cheerfully. And the tadpoles continue to grow apace. I was just about to start watering the garden before today's rain, but discovered only yesterday that last Winter's big freeze has left me with two holes in the pipe to my outside tap which render it unusable. Dammit, I'll have to get it repaired or else trust to the heavens to water the plants. Hmm.

Yesterday was a beautiful day, and I wandered up to Kemp Town with one of my Brighton BFs. We passed the May Day "Childrens' Parade" on the way, as it meandered through the Lanes, with loud music and very excited children dressed in various costumes. I was reminded of the time Grandson wanted to join in, dressed in his Superman suit, and walked all the way, following the Parade, when he was only two! He's already providing me with memories and he's still only 5 (or nearly six as he constantly reminds me). Anyway, back to our walk in Kemp Town, where we bumped into Gay Friend who was beautifully dressed as always (bright pink jumper and matching scarf). I do wish he would cut his hair though, because it's a very long, greasy, greyish pontytail which he tucks into a hat (usually) and which sometimes escapes. If I'm really truthful, it makes me feel rather queasy - it's not attractive at all and I'm tempted to take a pair of scissors to it! That would probably be the end of our friendship though. After this encounter we spent a happy half hour in the Antiques Flea Market (where I bought a lovely retro 60s tray for £1) before sitting out in the sunshine to share a toasted ciabatta, a bottle of sparkling water and an almond bite. What a lovely morning it was.

Then yesterday evening I was invited to one of the Private Views that abounded because of the Artists' Open Houses which are a regular part of Brighton's Festival. It was very nice really - my downstairs neighbour's Artist friend is exhibiting with another artist across town - so there were lots of familiar faces, and some very tempting pictures. I may well go back and buy one of the limited edition prints of a stormy Brighton sea and beach; they were beautifully done and affordable as far as my budget goes - which is not very far. There was lovely food and wine too, and good conversation which mostly centred around babies because two of the friends present are pregnant.

Well, that's about it for catching up - though I haven't yet told you about my last trip to London to visit another BF, or my latest foray into copywriting. So much to do, so little time.

10 comments:

aims said...

I really like how you look after you with your friends and sitting out at a table eating and talking - sometimes drinking.

Your life by the ocean seems almost dreamlike to me but I know you will think it is just every day stuff.

I have no friends that I go out with because they all live miles and miles away or across the ocean.

I think I would like that if I did. I might be more carefree - like you.

Donna said...

Hey Stranger!Hahaa...Sounds like life and you are finally getting along together!
Too bad about the plumbing problem...If we lived there, I'd get my hubby to fix it for you...
Happy Day to you!
hughugs

A Mother's Place is in the Wrong said...

Dear aims, how lovely to hear from you again. I do know how lucky I am in having friends close by and being able to do those simple sociable things that make life so enjoyable. And being by the sea is something I do really appreciate.
I wish you were near here - I'm sure we would have some great times too. Love, M xx

Dear Donna, it's my lucky day - two visits from two old friends!
Thanks so much for dropping by - and for the offer of your hubby to fix my pipes - if only we were closer :-) Hope you have a great weekend.
Love and hugs, M xx

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family affairs said...

Thanks for the update. All sounds good. Glad to hear it. Sorry short comment as I never seem to be able to leave one these days Lx

A Mother's Place is in the Wrong said...

Hi Lulu, how lovely to hear from you - and don't worry, I know just how busy you always are. Lots of love to you and the little (and not so little) elephants! M xx

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